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Kate Middleton admits struggling with 'mummy guilt' over royal duties

The Duchess of Cambridge has confessed to struggling with ‘mum guilt’ and revealed she tried ‘hypnobirthing’ to overcome severe morning sickness while pregnant.
During a candid discussion about parenthood, Kate described herself as a ‘hands-on mum’, but said she often feels she falls short of expectations.

She was interviewed for the Happy Mum Happy Baby podcast hosted by Giovanna Fletcher, who has also written about being a mother to three children with her husband Tom Fletcher a member of the band McFly.

Asked if she experienced pangs of ‘mum guilt’, the duchess replied: ‘Yes absolutely – and anyone who doesn’t as a mother is actually lying. Yes – all the time.’

The duchess, who has a nanny, Maria Teresa Turrion Borrallo, said: ‘There’s such a pull, but I am such a hands-on mum, and whatever you’re doing you want to make sure you’re doing the uttermost best job you can for your children.’

Kate said she wanted to spark a ‘generational change’ in early years development, and highlighted her Five Big Questions On The Under-Fives survey, launched in January to spark a UK-wide conversation about creating the best foundations for children to thrive.

The month-long online poll, conducted by Ipsos Mori on behalf of Kate’s Royal Foundation, is thought to be the biggest survey of its kind and the data will guide the duchess’ future work.

It has now attracted 200,000 responses.

The duchess explained: ‘What we’re doing with the survey is asking people – what is it that matters for them in raising their children today.

‘It’s going to take a long time, I’m talking about a generational change, but hopefully this is the first small step: to start a conversation around the importance of early-childhood development.’

Kate’s interview was recorded at the end of January after making an early-morning visit to a nursery and pre-school in Stockwell, south London, and she joked about how her two eldest children chastised her over her priorities as a mother.

She said: ‘And you know, even this morning, coming to the nursery visit here, George and Charlotte were like, “Mummy how could you possibly not be dropping us off at school this morning?”

‘But no, it’s a constant challenge, you hear it time and time again from mums. Even mums who aren’t necessarily working, aren’t pulled in the directions of having to juggle work life and family life – there’s always something.’

The duchess added: ‘And always sort of questioning your own decisions, and your own judgments, and things like that, and I think that starts from the moment you have a baby.’

At the start of each of her pregnancies she suffered from a form of morning sickness called hyperemesis gravidarum, which causes severe vomiting and can lead to dehydration, weight loss and a build-up of toxins in the blood or urine.

Consequently, she described herself as ‘not the happiest of pregnant people’, adding: ‘Lots of people have it far, far worse, but it was definitely a challenge. Not just for me but also for your loved ones around you.’

Kate went on to say: ‘You know, William didn’t feel he could do much to help and it’s hard for everyone to see you suffering without actually being able to do anything about it.’

The duke revealed in 2017 when his wife was pregnant with Prince Louis that they had been trying a host of remedies after a well-wisher said Kate should nibble on ginger biscuits.

He replied at the time: ‘Ginger biscuits – but there’s not much ginger can do to stop that, we’ve done all that.’

Kate explained how her experience with the severe morning sickness led her to hypnobirthing, as she came to realise the importance of ‘mind over the body’ after trying everything to overcome the illness.

She joked: ‘I’m not going to say that William was standing there sort of, chanting sweet nothings at me. He definitely wasn’t. I didn’t even ask him about it, but it was just something I wanted to do for myself.

‘I saw the power of it really, the meditation and the deep breathing and things like that, that they teach you in hypnobirthing, when I was really sick, and actually I realised that this was something I could take control of, I suppose, during labour. It was hugely powerful.’
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